Ahhh, soon the first post on the SECOND BOOK will be up. I know you’re mucho, mucho excited.
Book: The Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants
Pages: 218-294
Topics: Lena in Love, Death, Lena & Kostos, Bridget’s Fall, Bailey, The End
Lena in Love:
She was sad about what had happened to Kostos. And someplace under that, she was sad that people like Bee and Kostos, who had lost everything, were still open to love, and she, who’d lost nothing, was not. (pg. 221)
Lena is a very interesting character, and this is for many reasons, not least of which is how she approaches love. Which is to say that she avoids it. It stresses her out. Unlike the majority of people, she doesn’t really want to fall in love and she seems to go out of her way to sabotage her chances at happiness. (Love, of course = happiness. Why? Because love always = happiness.) Why does she do this? I don’t know, but I have theories, and I’m sure you want to hear them:
Theory #1: I forget which book it is (but I’m sure when I come across it, I’ll give you guys the quote), but at one point during the Traveling Pants saga, Lena says (or thinks, at least) that she is not good at being happy. She says that different people are good at different things; Effie is good at being happy while she is good at writing Thank You cards. (No, seriously, that’s what she’s good at.) So, you know, there is that, the simple fact that Lena is not good at being happy. Some people are incredibly good at this and others aren’t. (As for me personally, I fall somewhere in the middle. I’m usually good enough at being happy, but it’s a quieter, more reserved form of happiness than many people have and others often mistake it for, um, epic sadness and emotasticness.)
Theory #2: Although to me as a reader it is obvious that Lena understands herself quite well, especially for someone who in this first book is only fifteen years old, Lena herself sees one thing: the only thing anyone else sees is how pretty she looks. How messed up. For starters, Lena is a quiet, somewhat shy, definitely modest person. She’s probably not a huge fan of all the attention, especially as it gives people a view of her that isn’t really true. And added to that, it kind of sucks to be known by one thing. If you’ve ever been seen as the pretty one, the smart one, or the athletic one, (and most of us, at one point or another, have been), you know this. But that doesn’t last forever, really. In Lena’s case it does. She’s been Miss Gorgeous since she was a toddler practically, and I can only imagine that it gets pretty hard, after all that, to think someone might be interested in what’s beneath the surface.
Oh, and don’t you guys love how I’m discussing and psychoanalyzing these characters as if they are real people?
Lena & Kostos:
“You are in love with Kostos,” Effie accused.
“No I’m not.” If Lena hadn’t known she was in love with Kostos before, she did not. Because she knew what a lie felt like. (pg. 256)
In the spirit of full disclosure, I’ve never been a huge Lena/Kostos fan. I adore Lena, and I don’t not like Kostos, but I’ve never been a fan of their relationship. As I read the books this time I’m trying to keep an open mind and actually get into this relationship, but as of the end of the first book, it’s just not happening. Again, let me discuss why.
Reason #1: The relationship between Lena and Kostos is not a very solid or good one. We’re only in the first book, so let’s look at that: first, she doesn’t like him just because he’s a guy and guys have certain ideas about her based on the fact that she is gorgeous. Then, he accidentally sees her naked and because she’s too freaked out to tell her grandparents what happened, they get the idea that KOSTOS DID SOMETHING BAD and this leads to Lena’s bapi getting in a fist fight with Kostos’ bapi. Kostos doesn’t really want to see or talk to her after this, and then she realizes she’s in love with him. (Not to mention that she’s going back to the US and he lives in Greece.) Geez. Looking at that, I’m starting to have some empathy here – the situation surrounding Lena falling in love with this boy is definitely less than ideal. Way less than ideal, so I’m pardoning them, however…
Reason #2: They presumably have a happy relationship, but we never get to see it! In the first book all we see is their awkward interactions and Lena moping around because she’s in love with him. I mean seriously, Lena bears some resemblance to Bella (of Twilight). And I’m allowed to say that because, yeah, I’m a huge fan of Bella. Anyway, my point is that Lena and Kostos don’t have a lot of interaction in this book. You see why and how she falls in love with him (which I actually really like – she sees how he is around other people, the way he treats kids and old ladies and she really does fall in love with who he is, not just a physical lust or hurried infatuation), but there aren’t a whole lot of scenes with them together, so we don’t exactly see how they are together, as a couple.
Reason #3: This reason is very much related to the first two, but this relationship never seems to make Lena happy. She’s a very melancholy person to begin with and is constantly battling sadness and this relationship which is supposed to be so epic and amazing, only adds to her emotional battles. It makes me feel bad for her.
Bridget’s Fall:
Bridget wasn’t sure if she was too young for him, but she knew she was too young for what she had done with him. (pg. 264)
So Bridget has sex with Eric, the soccer coach, and then things sort of fall apart. Or, rather, she falls apart. It’s very emotional, very epic, and very much in line with her character, the depth of which always manages to surprise me no matter how many times I read the books. Bee is determined, stubborn, and goes at a pace that would put the Energizer Bunny to shame when she’s after something, but then after it’s achieved… she has to go back to herself, to her life, to the reality that it hasn’t really changed anything. However, in this case the thing she does is lose her virginity and it does change things, just not in the way she expects or wants.
I think that Bee’s story is one of the best in the first book (the other best is Tibby’s story) and sets up so much that is to come without giving away too much of what is to be revealed. It’s difficult, emotional, often comparable to a train wreck, but all in all pretty perfect as far as stubbornness and heartache goes.
Bailey:
“Do you really think anybody is going to care about me and my dad?”
Bailey shrugged. “If you do,” she said. (pg. 227)
She would just stay here holding Bailey’s hand for all time, so Bailey wouldn’t be afraid that there wasn’t enough of it. (pg. 251)
I can never choose just one quote for the parts about Bailey, and I’m just going to say it: Bailey is amazing. Her character, her story, her impact – everything. My words cannot do justice to it because Bailey’s story in this first book (especially the last third of the book) is so incredible. I teared up and who knows how many times I’ve read the book before. But what happens is this (on the off chance you haven’t read this book): Bailey dies.
Yep. She dies. She has cancer, she gets too sick for them to fight it, and she dies. We learn towards the end of the book that she was actually getting worse before Tibby even met her, that all the treatments they’d tried (and there had been many) only worked for a little while. We find out that throughout the entire book, she was dying, and her family (and presumably her) pretty much knew it. Read the book, if you haven’t yet, because it is amazing. Even though I’ve spoiled it for you, Bailey’s story is so emotional and so great that it’s worth it, and I love how this girl that comes into Tibby’s life for a few months one summer changes everything, from the way she reacts to things to the type of guys she likes. It’s incredible and I can’t even do much discussing because there’s nothing to say except: WOW.
The End:
Maybe there is more truth in how you feel than in what actually happens. (pg. 293)
So the book ends. The four girls come back together, have an end-of-the-summer ceremony with the pants. Lena has fallen in love; Tibby’s had someone very close to her die; Bee has lost her virginity and began to fall apart (yes, in that order); Carmen’s dad has gotten remarried and she’s ran away from his home. A lot has happened. Some good, some bad, and you get the feeling at the end of the book that you want more, because you need to know how it ends with these characters, how their stories continue. It’s so good that there’s a second (and third and fourth) book because the end of the first one, though definitely not a cliffhanger, does leave you wanting more.
More Quotes I Found:
But [he] wasn’t what she needed. Her need was as big as the stars, and he was down on the beach, so quiet she could hardly hear him. (pg. 265)
She was alive, and they were dead. She had to try to make her life big. As big as she could. She promised Bailey she would keep playing. (pg. 288)
Maybe happiness didn’t have to be about the big, sweeping circumstances, about having everything in your life in place. Maybe it was about stringing together a bunch of small pleasures. (pg. 282)
‘I wish you cared,’ Lena told him telepathically, and then wanted to take it back. (pg. 252)
Questions For You: (answer one or ALL)
1. What is your opinion of Lena’s and Kostos’ relationship?
2. Are you good at being happy? (In a related story: what ARE you good at?)
3. What’s your favorite quote that I’ve posted here?
4. Did you cry when Bailey died? Did you cry at anything else in this first book?